There's a fine line between lust and love. Many confuse it with each other. Im sure that not every moment i've had was purely a procreation of love. But, im sure when insecurities and shyness goes out the window, when youre able to lie there looking at each other without being at all concerned with how your'e positioned which might make your tummy bulge even more or display your unshaved armpit hair , im sure you've forged a damn good relationship. And when you stop asking yourself after every occasion if what happened was simply implusive lust or a beautiful display of affection, when you just know that hell yea i love this boy right now and this was it. No questions girl, enjoy the moment. hug him and cry in his arms Because you're his as much as he's completely yours.